Has this lump of coal turned into a diamond, yet?
Only thing that makes it okay for people to talk smack about Donald Trump as if he's an ass is their own, precisely the same thing that makes it okay for him to act in the life-alienating ways he does. ![]()
Okay, but not really. At this stage of game, we prefer to call them "asshole" by their scientific name: amygdala.....
before managing to summon adoption spirit magic.
preexhibition) on the alchemy of learning.....Every human being adopts relevant knowledge, aspirations, skills, attitudes, behaviors, animals, babies, cultures, etc. for life needed, wanted, desired to overcome each/every loss, as life and that being keep changing here + there + beyond, while dancing with 6 predictable cards: guilt and shame, mastery and control, rejection, identity, intimacy, grief.
EXHIBIT A) 'member when i shared more nature than words? 4years ago, "Trying Things have been happening this past year, there is so much I am not at liberty to talk about, so I have to suck up the shit and send it to the universe for cosmic composting but I am just a mere mortal sometimes I end up yelling my frustrations to human beings which makes it worse...." what happens when self-selected people beholden to love justify refusing to talk out problems with u? "what cannot be spoken cannot be healed," Heart of Inspiration reminds. god bless it.
EXHIBIT B)Taboo Artist
EXHIBIT C) Thanks, Teal Swan, for your FB episode on "Cancel Culture".
I appreciate you and your take on holocaustic cut off culture by which I'z abused, neglected, orphaned and into which I'z adopted.
Had me soul surfing this mourning.
As it has stood historically and currently, adoption appears to fall in between exploitation and slavery. we kin reverse this fucking trend to alienate life under guise of saving with fine not gross change of approach glory b alelujah. did i lose u at holocaust? my word. working on that. adopt a draft, rough and incomplete, kind of like me, that's a point, careful, it's sharp.
EXHIBIT D) In what nation/state/mind were u 1983, u know, before1984? Please welcome on this faerly clear channel for adoptee/family, Quiet Riot with Metal Health, to conduct upcoming sound healing shift on this 21st century Underground Railroad. What if mercy jubilee + evolution revolution = justice, Joy, peace on earth/beyond? Danger steer clear, breathe easy, celebrate, dance, sing, as u wish, mourn what is
EXHIBIT E) "Those who assume adoptees speak adoption truths as an act of self-victimization..." Thanks, Ferera, I appreciate you and your voice; you help me continue find and tune mine. I shared with your post my thoughts "pls don't pass off abused, neglected orphans adopted across oceans to other adoptees for group hug thinking that's the solution; build your own capacity for tolerance thx"
EXHIBIT F) Also on m'FB wall I shared Ferera's post that begins "There is nothing wrong with preferring to be a "private family" -except when the preference is rooted in shame and secrecy...." with my own reflections
"adoptive pa spoke for extended adoptive fam, calling my coming out of closet crying abuse, neglect, racism nonsensical and insulting. That makes sense because abuse, neglect, racism are nonsensical and insulting. Guilt/Shame, Rejection, Mastery/Control, Identity, Intimacy, Grief are 6 predictable card with which each human dances to overcome Loss while adopting new knowledge, aspirations, skills, attitudes, behaviors, animals, babies, culture, etc for life wanted, needed, desired, as long as person and life keep changing here, there, and beyond. I'M SO CURIOUS how to adopt success for one/all while transmuting violence cycles into love."
EXHIBIT G) Next station? Here to help us clean and clear up the mystery to allow for streams of grace, Please welcome on this faerly clear channel for adoptee/family, Gogol Bordello - 'My Gypsy Auto Pilot', to conduct upcoming sound healing shift on this 21st century Underground Railroad. What if mercy jubilee + evolution revolution = justice, Joy, peace on earth/beyond? Danger steer clear, breathe easy, celebrate, dance, sing, as u wish, mourn what is