Turns out, parent - president, you don't get to shit talk/walk into a line people you believe misbehave, unless you are a tyrant, than that is the un/official law. ![]()
What if that's how come democracies fail across cultures; too overwhelmed, highly-educated-and-not parents have yet to summon adoption spirit more systematically than their amygdala? At this stage of game, only miracles help; you cannot teach anybody anything when they feel entitled to cycle in that state of mind and matter.
Examine Maslow's hierarchy of needs to expand this lesson in education triage.
What to do instead?
Heel. Slow your roll, danger steer clear, put palms together each time you want to point a finger.
Heal. Start with self.
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When a worry predictably arrives, that is your red flag to a) not believe everything you think, b) tag out, c) flip over that worry card to paint the miracle beyond belief for which to pray.
EXHIBIT A) Quell Condescension Culture
EXHIBIT B) Accommodate, Love, to Imagine Peace
EXHIBIT C) Last Call
EXHIBIT D) Rhode Island PBS commercial featuring a little bright eyed blond boy under 5, parents so, so proud he was inspired by PBS to meet a war vet. On Holy Wars, Striving, Applying, Struggling, and Persevering
EXHIBIT E) My adoptive AmericanUSA grandpa's pretty much refused to speak of their ww2 involvement, such was the bitter taste it left behind in their mouths, and sadness that was how come their own children got left behind, abused, neglected, orphaned essentially raising themselves and sibs, unless someone else stepped in to help. Adoption is not for babies. My Finnish granpa was involved in ww2, as well, then became a prison guard within nation with past of barring Romany birth/s, he had big hand in BIPOC-me's initial abuse, neglect, and abandonment.
EXHIBIT F) Before you think about running in to save the day by adopting a person, place, thing, stop, reconsider saving yourself first. Data shows that most are so fearful and grief struck by loss themselves, they misdiagnose/mistreat the abused, neglected, orphan they chose to adopt, and are unable to stop, too overwhelmed with themselves in need of love. Pls stop inserting yourself like a dick thx. Adoptee Widely Misdiagnosed as Addict, ADHD, Bipolar, Criminal, Depressoid
EXHIBIT J) Deviate for Perfect Law of Liberty: LOVE
EXHIBIT M) Shhhacrifice, Love
EXHIBIT N) Crazy Crisis Triggers - Insane Reframe
EXHIBIT P) HOLY COW
EXHIBIT R) Polluted
EXHIBIT T) This Is Not A Joke
EXHIBIT W) Pleas of International Adoptee 2017 spring
EXHIBIT Z) Whose Line Is It Anyway? a-dopt a-draft
EXHIBIT AA) TARGET PRACTICE
EXHIBIT CC) The Left Behind Standard
EXHIBIT DD) Safety Meetings a-dopt a-draft
EXHIBIT FF) 21st century under ground railroad
EXHIBIT GG) 'Snot that The Holocaust is an entry point, or is it? From a safe, sound distance, speaking against a systemic abuse from family/friends/biz/church/nations does not mean that I am ungrateful, lacking compassion/understanding, or that I fail to acknowledge their gracious gifts, but shows I love them and myself so deeply I dare to tell. Simply tangled up in accruing loss-pileup, families-friends-those-beholden-to-care are unable to respond my pleas for tolerance, like when I began orphaned. over warped time and space, I triage and try again to explain in a way each can take away making amends: the systematic thinking/treatment that alienates life, also minding the gap, the spaces in between, correcting where I fall into the same trap, mirroring the madness, fearful, grief struck by loss cycling fight-flight-freeze-fuck before summoning adoption spirit magic to overcome with joy and peace. Isn't this the mission for which we, the people signed: to adopt success for one/all while transmuting violence to love? at least, here in AmericaUSA, we know we are all assholes/amygdalas maybe and how we learn to overcome unfolds here, there, and beyond.
EXHIBIT HH) hearing through rumor mill that Donald does not like Kamala reminds me of much like how so many of us, we, the people, were schooled how to hate with love like that little blond boy in the PBS commercial (exhibit d) i love you all Intolerance, Liberty to Hate because i said so, and I'm your ...
EXHIBIT II) 30 august 1970, m'then-adolescent-and-pregnant-with-me-Finnish-birth-ma and BIPOC-fetus-me were receiving wrath of community/family in nation with past of barring Romany birth/s. 2020, ww2vet-then-prison-guard-birth-grandpa has since crossed over, and m'birth ma (with her 4 older sibs) helps care for granma, also loving on her two other birth children, the grandkids, animals, plants, friends, o yes, despite language - culture barriers, loving on me too in faery god mother like ways since I resurfaced in her life ~1998. I love you all, friends from around the world, Finnish maternal birth fam - Romany paternal birth fam, AmericanUSA adoptives - inlaws, even when we cannot be together to get along down the road. Please welcome on this faerly clear channel for adoptee/family, Grateful Dead with Brokedown Palace, to conduct next sound healing shift on this 21st century underground railroad. What if mercy jubilee + evolution revolution = justice, joy, peace on earth/beyond? Danger steer clear, breathe easy, celebrate, as you wish, mourn what is.
EXHIBIT JJ) slave to love 1970 abused, neglected, orphan, adopted 1971 not allowed to be/cry/feel, 2009 when I fled almost everything to save my life, find my heART, healthy boundaries and authenticity were goals, thank god life is for learning nobody is perfect starting with self here, there, and beyond.
EXHIBIT KK) people DO change. That's the alchemy of lifelong learning here there and beyond do u really care about the comma and/or question mark pls don't answer thx. Writing is my path away from modern day slavery. Your donations pave way like salary. Adopt a draft, rough and incomplete, kind of like me.
EXHIBIT LL) Seeking spirited volunteer who possesses resources + where-with-all to print, bind, mail to me 1-5 environmentally friendly copies of all my blogs/websites since 2009 ASAP, for writing is my path away from modern day slavery, and your donations pave way like salary; adopt a draft, rough and incomplete, kind of like me, adding up to somewhat of a smoke stack: Gypsy Myth Debunked (website&blog), Rromni Ramparts blog, Land of Art Monastery blog, Adoption Spirit Apothecary website.
I guess we, the people of Richlands, VA haven't heard how USA was founded on a stack cards ...ask the Masons in your hood.
EXHIBIT NN) Great Design...Card...Chart...Map...Pacifism
EXHIBIT OO)
Some say the Sanskrit based Romani Chi'b word "korkoro" means "freedom", others say it means "alone". Spoiler Alert: eye don't recommend war movies as a regular part of curriculum/programming to adopt success for one/all, yet Korkoro by Tony Gatliff is like no other, it's final lines possessing me to draw this card. 2020 Census: unsafe for likes of me, Kale/Mustalainen/Black/FinnishRomany~Gypsy "adopted""free""AmericanUSA". I/we desire inclusion without being raped, burned, assassinated, killing somebody else/self due to racism/slavery, gross misdiagnosis/mistreatment, a great devouring (rape)~O Baro Porrajmos, how Romany refer to the Holocaust, trickling down bloody effects to this day. SO, we earn ph.d. in tolerance from where we hide, sit, lay, stand.
WHY free Ph.D.? for all the times smart is struck senseless by loss and trauma. https://gypsymythdebunked.blogspot.com/p/free-phd.html
EXHIBIT PP)
2020 Census: unsafe for likes of me, Kale/Mustalainen/Black/FinnishRomany~Gypsy "adopted""free""AmericanUSA". I/we desire inclusion without being raped, burned, assassinated, killing somebody else/self due to racism/slavery, gross misdiagnosis/mistreatment, a great devouring (rape)~O Baro Porrajmos, how Romany refer to the Holocaust, trickling down bloody effects to this day. SO, we earn ph.d. in tolerance from where we hide, sit, lay, stand.
WHY free Ph.D.? for all the times smart is struck senseless by loss and trauma. https://gypsymythdebunked.blogspot.com/p/free-phd.html
Adoptee Gaslighting 102: "I'm not racist, you just stupid, crazy, jerk."
That's a line from Hitler's book. If Romany were included in K-12 standards/books-life, we might've learned that lesson. Adoptee, gypsy, Gypsy, Romany, sometimes the same, other times lots of explaining.
*pls respect my sensitive boundaries by witnessing without inserting yourself like a dick on my wall/space AND stop thinking about me in such a way that allows such dismissive treatment of me, with such lack of equity, dignity, justice thx.
I mean, of course, u all get to think/do whatever the fuck you want, but really, do u when it seems like systematically its at my/our expense and exclusion, and the other adoptees and poc's, Blacks of the world, African - Romany, BIPOCs too?
how do you really want to think about and treat your people in the name of.........
how are you more attached to your thinking than people u consider to be crazy, dumb, evil? Careful, that's where Hitler and all the other amygdalas fall off the wagon.
How have you been playing fighting spirit as if its adoption spirit?
adoptee changes for nations and families to their delight, yet then 4s more likey to suicide, not to mention, lash out, homicide, overdose, flunk out of school, family, society grossly misdiagnosed/mistreated.
the way u think and act can change that holocaustic stat.
me, too.
we have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; we have received the spirit of adoption, whereby we cry: thanks god for helping us all, even the loves cutting us off and telling us its our own faults as a response to our pleas for tolerance. Romans 8:15
as far as east is from west is how far transgression is removed from us Psalm 103:12 amen awomen om
thanks for sharing map with me on where Gypsies / Rromani originated and how the crisis - diaspora went, Mark Tomlinson.
